The Time I Felt Left Out in My Own Country

Growing up in the Philippines, many of us are taught English in school. But sometimes, we don’t realize how deeply it affects our lives, beyond tests, grades, or job applications.

English isn't just a subject; it's a skill that can open doors to connection, opportunity, and understanding.

Here's a story from my own life that shows how true that is.

Not knowing English well doesn’t just mean missing out on jobs or contests—it also means missing out on conversations, experiences, and even friendships. I learned this the hard way.

When I was thirteen, some of my cousins from the U.S. came to visit. They spoke a mix of English and Filipino, but mostly English.

They started talking about their favorite TV shows, music, and YouTube videos at a family gathering. They laughed at jokes, made references I didn’t get, and spoke so fast I could barely keep up.

I tried to join in, but I hesitated every time I opened my mouth. My English wasn’t bad, but it wasn’t as natural as theirs. And in that moment, I felt out of place—like I was missing a whole world that they could access so easily.

That night, I promised myself I would improve. I started watching English shows, reading books, and practicing more.

A year later, when my cousins visited again, something changed. This time, I could keep up. I could joke with them, understand their stories, and even introduce them to some local phrases in return.

And that’s when I realized: English isn’t just about school or work. It’s also about connection. It allows us to engage with people, understand different cultures, and even enjoy entertainment that the whole world is talking about.

Why Learning English is Important for Filipinos

For me, English started as something I had to learn. But over time, it became one of the most valuable skills I have. It helped me help others, gave me opportunities I never expected, and made me feel more connected to the world.

And that’s why, as a Filipino, I believe learning English is one of the best skills we can have.

To everyone in Japan who is learning English

Don’t be afraid to make mistakes. I know how scary it feels to speak a language that isn’t your own. But each small step matters. Watch shows, sing along to songs, speak even if you're unsure—because the more you use English, the more confident you’ll become. English is more than just a language. It’s a bridge—connecting people, cultures, and opportunities. Whether it’s for travel, work, or making new friends, your efforts will pay off. Keep going, and trust the process. You've got this!